We’d like to say we’re surprised that Kim Kardashian filed for divorce after 72 days of marriage but like most of you, we’re not.

We wanted her fairytale wedding to have a happy ending so we didn’t have to watch her public humiliation again. We had hoped that someone with her business acumen, beauty and level of success was eventually going to stop making such dumb choices, and not just when it comes to men. We wanted her to get it right.

But nope.

So why Kim? Why do you keep making choices that hurt you this way? Do you think you deserve it? Why don’t you understand that happily ever after starts with loving yourself first?