I’m trying to kick the habit.  I put people on pedestals and it’s not a good thing.  First, because they don’t usually know they’re up there and second, because when they come tumbling down – the landing is never smooth. There is always a defining moment, the moment when I look into their eyes and [...]

I had breakfast this morning with my girlfriend Hedy to celebrate my upcoming forty-eighth birthday.  We sat in a gazebo restaurant on a beach in Maui, surrounded by palm trees and soft tropical air, and all we could talk about was aging and face-lifts. Hedy qualifies as my plastic surgery expert, having had her eyes [...]