So you want to start your own business but you’ve got all these excuses about how because you’re single, you couldn’t possibly do it alone. Well, we spoke with Silvia Johnson, CEO of Outside The Cubicle about being bold and taking a stand for yourself to do what you love.

“Creating an ideal business for you is that absolute intersection between what gets you excited, what your skills are and then what the market will actually pay for,” says Johnson a former corporate HR professional for high tech companies who worked as a consultant before transitioning to a business built around her true passion — helping women entrepreneurs.

“The 2nd component is what I call the entrepreneurial mindset.  Even if all you want to do is replace your corporate salary or make whatever your number is, whatever size that is. You have to actually think like an entrepreneur in order to sustain that and continue to weather the storms long-term.”

Using her Thriving Business model, here are the top 5 things single women need to consider in order to build their six-figure business:

Entrepreneurial Mindset

1. Focus Your Inner Game. The most important step in launching a business is empowered thinking, that means having your inner game together so that your thoughts are focused on your goal. Johnson’s single clients have told her:  I can’t do it without a 2nd income; or My life savings is going to disappear and I’m going to end up a bag lady; or If I’m a successful business woman then I’m not going to attract a man. “That’s just not true. A husband is a false safeguard.” Get aligned with your mission and tune into the stories you’re telling yourself that keep you stuck. If there are too many oars in the boat and they’re not rowing you in the right direction, throw them overboard.

Strategic Thinking

2. Be clear about what’s important to you. Corporations have missions, vision and values for a reason. So as an entrepreneur you need to decide what your criteria are, what you value and and use that information so you stay grounded and won’t get lost or easily influenced by all of the junk that’s out there. More importantly, who is this business for? Who does it serve? “When it’s a ministry, a mission that you’re called to it, that this is what you’re meant for, it becomes much easier to go through the rest of it.”

3. Get Clear About Your Finances. Grab the bull by the horns and don’t get freaked out about the numbers, just make sure you know what they are. If you have a nest egg and you’re in it to win it, not having another job to support you is a really good forcing mechanism because you have to make it work. And don’t worry about the gap on your résumé. Since most people find jobs through networking, if you were a good employee, the right referral will get you another job if the time comes.

The truth of the matter is that 20% of your efforts yield 80% of the results

On the other hand, if your finances are a disaster, get your financial house in order first. Keep your job to support yourself while you start your business on the side. You may also have to roll your 401K into a self-directed plan and tap into it but only do that if your mindset has you truly committed for the long haul and to paying it back.

Effective Action

4. The 80/20 rule.  Being in business isn’t about creating a to-do list that is 10 pages long and checking things off. It’s not about being busy. What gets you to your money and time goals?  “The truth of the matter is, that 20% of your efforts are yielding 80% of the results. So even for someone who wants to support their business on the side, guess what if you’re focusing 20% good efforts, effective efforts moving them forward, it will yield 80% of the results.” If you’re already in business or half way there stop telling yourself you don’t have time: reprioritize!

5. Find Support. Sometimes being in business can be a lonely haul so find a mastermind group that can support you. Go to networking events with the intention to find other savvy single women who are going to succeed.  Call it in. “We as women very much can set our intention of what we want to attract.” When your fears and demons rear their ugly head, you’ll have people going through the same thing as you who will talk you off the cliff and hold you accountable to your dreams. But remember, you’re only as good as your weakest group member, so set up checks and balances – just like you would in the corporate world – to cut the members who aren’t performing loose (in a loving way).

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Some may fudge the $10 for the condiments or spices they require, but if you set up your kitchen with the basics, these 10 yummy meals won’t break your budget or waste your time.

Kitchen Sink Bean Salad

Marinate can of black eyed peas in balsamic vinegar while chopping the rest.  Add:  chopped carrots, celery, raw beets, string beans or avocado, daikon or radishes, pumpkin or sunflower seeds, pinch of thyme, salt and pepper—to taste.  Dress with splash of lemon, and flax or olive oil to the vinegar.

Tilapia

Five single women said their favorite dish was tilapia.  Registered Nurse Angil Tarach-Ritchey says, “When I was a single woman in my forties, one of my favorite healthy meals took 10 minutes was parmesan crusted baked tilapia, northern beans, and a salad. Brush the tilapia with olive oil and coat with a mixture of parmesan, with lemon pepper and salt to taste, and broil. Tilapia cooks in 5-8 minutes.”

Pepper Steak Fry

Charlene Davis lists the full ingredients and directions for this quick and hearty steak dish on her Busy Mom Blog.  Mix together steak sauce, soy sauce, cornstarch and beef broth; set aside. Heat oil in skillet and brown meat for 2-3 minutes. Add pepper strips and stir with meat for another minute or two. Pour steak sauce mixture over the meat and peppers and bring to a boil. Reduce heat and simmer for 1 minute. Serve with instant rice. Serves 4.

Tempeh And Red Pepper Bake

Pamela Rice, organizer of the Veggie Pride Parade NYC suggested this one years ago.  Cube tempeh and roasted red peppers.  Toss in (cold) baking dish with a combo of lemon juice, low salt tamari sauce and canola oil.  Bake for about 7 minutes to heat then broil to make crunchy for a few minutes.  Serve over instant brown rice.

Egg In A Basket

Simple, fast and tons of energy. Author Renee Adams has this simple, fun comfort food idea. Put some butter, olive oil, or margarine in a skillet on med heat.  Cut a hole in the center of your favorite slice of bread and brown in the skillet.  Crack an egg (or two whites) into the hole, on the skillet. Add garlic powder and/or paprika, if desired. Top the cooked egg with the browned cut out circle and serve with cut up fruit.

Chicken Provencal

Cube boneless chicken and brown with quartered canned artichoke hearts and black olives in olive oil. Stir with rosemary and a pinch of oregano.  Serve over rice or alongside tubetti pasta.

Do share your quick meal recipes!

It’s no April Fool’s joke that in about 15 days, your taxes are due!  Here are some last minute tax tips to remember at filing time, from our tax experts.  Even though they’re CPAs and legal pros–they don’t know your individual situation–check with your filing firm, bookeeper or IRS.gov.

Parent?

Ebong Eka, CPA to the stars, tells us that the amount of the earned income credit is refundable and has increased for 2010.  The maximum amount of the credit has increased. The most you can get for 2010 is:
$3,050 if you have one qualifying child
$5,036 if you have two qualifying children
$5,666 if you have three or more qualifying children
$457 if you do not have a qualifying child

Tim Gagnon, an attorney who teaches at Boston’s Northeastern College of Business Administration, reminds single Moms that if you were divorced or separated in 2008 or later, you must now have Form 8332 signed for the noncustodial parent to take the dependency exemption.

Property owner?

Eka reminds us that the Non Business Energy Property Credit expired in 2007 but has since been reinstated. You can receive a 30% tax credit for the cost of certain energy efficient property that was placed in service in 2010. Example of such property include high-efficiency heat pumps, air conditioners, and water heaters.

Small business owner?

Gagnon says that Business Assets purchased between 9/8/2010 and 12/31/2011 that qualify for bonus depreciation you may elect to either write off 100% or accelerate Alternative Minimum Tax credits that you may have been carrying forward from the past years.

Other?

Here’s a big reminder that this year the IRA has more free help than ever. From online tax guidance, digital withholding calculators, live phone service, free tax preparation online and across the country—the IRS really wants your money and gets it that they need to help you with the forms and rules.

Ask for the help you need and get through tax time with a financial peace of mind.